tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8191306183209604345.post891574303472716656..comments2023-06-28T09:20:57.213-05:00Comments on Rhythms from The Offbeat Drummer: I'm Not in Love, So Don't Forget It, It's Just a Silly Phase I'm Going ThroughThe Offbeat Drummerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18297496441624179505noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8191306183209604345.post-33864464990030330482012-01-21T10:32:16.699-06:002012-01-21T10:32:16.699-06:00Well, then certainly my ex-boyfriend, Chris, was n...Well, then certainly my ex-boyfriend, Chris, was never in love with me though I was in love with him. He never accepted me for my flaws and was the dominant personality in our relationship. He called all the shots; I was powerless, to the point where I lost any identity other than to be his girlfriend. And I was content to let that go on for 3 1/2 years! I finally broke free when he began to see other women and put me at the bottom of the food chain. And that was NOT easy for me. (I was being abused as well, which made it doubly hard to leave.) But I would've done anything for that man. Truly.The Offbeat Drummerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18297496441624179505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8191306183209604345.post-4749170487247202182012-01-21T00:56:52.122-06:002012-01-21T00:56:52.122-06:00Infatuation is centered around how they make you f...Infatuation is centered around how they make you feel, love is centered around how the other person feels and how you can make them happy. So, I think you are in true love only when you accept that person for who they are, flaws and all and know that without them in your life you would be less of the person you are now.Rebeca Sirenhttp://www.sirens-london.comnoreply@blogger.com